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Results of Disuse |
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Results of Learning |
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Humility The ability to acknowledge potential personal wrongness |
Arguments degenerate into "rightness" battles |
Learn to acknowledge the possibility, admit the possibility of being wrong |
I could be wrong, you could be right, let's talk |
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Awareness The ability to observe actual personal wrongness |
Arguments are confusing |
Learn to welcome feedback and honestly look in the mirror at oneself |
I see where I'm wrong |
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Responsibility The ability to be bothered by personal wrongness |
Both people blame each other for the problems |
Learn to admit faults, request forgiveness |
It bothers me when I’m wrong |
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Empathy The ability to be bothered if your personal wrongness hurts others |
Words and actions are intended to hurt |
Learn to understand, and validate |
It bothers me when my wrongness hurts you |
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Reliability The ability to correct personal wrongness |
Nothing changes because neither person sees anything to correct |
Learn to target the correction, debrief instead of rehash |
When I’m wrong, I'll change |